With as many people out there looking for a job as there are, you would think that finding an aide for me would be an easy task. Let me be the first to tell you, it's not. The ads we place when searching for a new aide for me usually go something like this: "In search of a woman between the ages of 23 and 45 to be an aide/personal assistant to a young lady with Brittle Bone Disease. Your responsibilities would be, but are not limited to, assistance with transfers from wheelchair to toilet and lying down position, help[...]